How often it has happen that someone has asked some help from you and u you have just said "I can't..."? I am sure quite often. It happens to us many times we just use the word "can't" for hiding our unwillingness to perform the task.
In fact, it is not just others who is in loss because of our use of this word "can't". It affects us too. We lose so much of fun, success, blessing and what not, why because we keep thinking "I can't". We want to do many things but just don't do it because we keep thinking I can't. We keep the a boundaries of the limitations around ourselves. Boundaries of the money, culture, physicality, gender and what not.
I am not trying to say the above limitations does not matter or not in existence. They do exists and some of them are for our betterment only but all of us know over doing of anything is harmful. So keep on a check of this boundaries. Its good to have certain boundaries but its not wise to just hide behind these boundaries.
We don't know what is our capability until we put it on test. So go there and break the barriers.
And make sure you don't use the word "can't" as a shield any more.
By the way, this is just my point of view, you can have yours. Let me know if you have any thoughts in favor or in oppose of my point of view. And don't just say I can't share my thoughts.
In fact, it is not just others who is in loss because of our use of this word "can't". It affects us too. We lose so much of fun, success, blessing and what not, why because we keep thinking "I can't". We want to do many things but just don't do it because we keep thinking I can't. We keep the a boundaries of the limitations around ourselves. Boundaries of the money, culture, physicality, gender and what not.
I am not trying to say the above limitations does not matter or not in existence. They do exists and some of them are for our betterment only but all of us know over doing of anything is harmful. So keep on a check of this boundaries. Its good to have certain boundaries but its not wise to just hide behind these boundaries.
We don't know what is our capability until we put it on test. So go there and break the barriers.
And make sure you don't use the word "can't" as a shield any more.
By the way, this is just my point of view, you can have yours. Let me know if you have any thoughts in favor or in oppose of my point of view. And don't just say I can't share my thoughts.
Yes,it's true my friend. Always be positive and go ahead think beyond the limitations and make our attitude "YES I CAN DO IT....!"
ReplyDeleteAgree with you guys,, Its fine to use can’t in “I can’t be a winner always but I can try to be.”
ReplyDeleteU are absolutely right Hitendra ... most of the time we don't even try and give up before itself.
ReplyDeleteWe should all remember this (from Udaan movie) :
Pairon ki bediyan khwabon ko baandhe nahi re, kabhi nahi re
Mitti ki parton ko nanne se ankur bhi cheeray, dheere dheere
Iraade hare hare, jinke seeno mein ghar kare
Woh dil ki sune kare na darre, na darre